My son always wants to be independent. He only wants to do what he likes to do. Unfortunately, my husband, his father, always wants to tell him what to do or what not to do.

When my son was still small, he knew he had to obey his dad. But I could see clearly that he was very unhappy.

Now, in the middle of his adolescence, he said that he sometimes would feel like exploding when his father pushed him.

So I told my husband not to push him too hard and to give him more freedom. But then my son's score in the school got bad. And my husband started to blame on me saying that I should have been more strict with him.